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Assertiveness VS Consideration
Assertiveness VS Consideration I don’t know whether this is a challenge for anyone but me. There’s a fine line between being assertive and being inconsiderate of others. That’s probably why some people have trouble asserting themselves, especially to people important to them. Well, I have hands-on experience with assertiveness VS consideration to share. Today I…
How are you brave?
Brevity & How are you brave? Talking about brevity, all the stories about brave heroes and heroines in history just flashed into my head. Although those historical events exhibited various types of heroic courage, most people recognized only the courage to fight the fear of external threats. Brevity to Fight the External or Internal Threats?…
How to deal with procrastination
It’s all about the small habits Are you someone with procrastination? I am sometimes a procrastinator. That means I mostly do things I need to do right away. However, when it comes to something difficult, I stall time. “Waiting for the right mood” is the excuse I give to myself. Why do we procrastinate? The…
The Art Of Assertiveness
Assertiveness & How to Assert Yourself Authentically Talking about assertiveness, I come across many Asians having trouble with self-assertion. And we somehow feel abused by aggressive people who may have over-asserted themselves, resulting in intimidating others. Well, I don’t want to go about different races and cultures. Anyway, it is our culture to be humble…
Learning to Forgive, Let Go & Move On
Forgiveness: A Secret to Manifesting Your Dream The Power Of Forgive & Let Go Have you realized the power of forgiveness? I know when it the time for the holy season, people tend to think of forgiving each other. What they mostly forget is to forgive themselves. Worst of all, we tend to forget to…
The Peril Of Impression
What impression do you leave in your subconscious mind, and how does your mind interpret it? We heard the saying: “first impression lasts forever.” It tells us how important first impression is. So, in our right mind, we naturally try to make the best first impression. However, little that we know, no matter how good…
The Power Of Vulnerability
What is vulnerability? Vulnerability is a state of emotional exposure that comes with some degree of uncertainty. It is the brevity of expressing one’s emotions without fear of being seen as weak. Why are we avoiding vulnerability? With the psychological need for security and safety, many people fear having their emotions, thoughts, or feeling exposed.…
Why do we wait? The Benefits of Waiting
Can you wait? Waiting might sound reactive and inactive in many cultures, particularly modern societies. We now live in the digital era where we can find everything in one click. And we hear many gurus tell us to hurry, grasp our chance, and beat it to our goals. Are we listening to our voice or…
Why Do We Yell?
Why do we aggressively show temper? Have you met someone who always tells people off when things don’t go as expected? How about you? Have you ever yelled or thrown your weight around trying to get what you want? Well, I believe we have all been there at some point in our lives, especially in…
Who Are We Judging?
A judge or Judged? Have you ever felt judged after sharing your life experience? Have you deemed a failure when you did something that didn’t turn out well? And have you ever disliked someone when you disagreed with what they did? Well, the truth is we always judge someone, some situation, and even ourselves all…
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